Sunday, 23 October 2016

Top Reasons Why People Are Afraid of Love

No matter the timeline, the story of lost love is one most of us can tell. This leaves many people to ask “why do relationships fail. The answer for many of us can be found within. Whether we know it or not, most of us are afraid of really being in love. While our fears may manifest themselves in different ways or show themselves at different stages of a relationship, we all harbor defenses that we believe on some level will protect us from getting hurt. These defenses may offer us a false illusion of safety or security, but they keep us from attaining the closeness we most desire.

So, what drives our fears of intimacy/love? What keeps us from finding, getting and keeping the love we say we want?