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Life is too short to spend it alone

Some people who are scared of opening up their hearts to feel loved end up being the coldest humans on earth. I will use myself as an example. While growing up i was so withdrawn into my little shell. I never opened my heart to love; not even from my family. I still don't know what i was scared of. I always loved to be on my own. People keep hammering it into my ear that no man is an island so i mustn't distance my self from people because it will affect my social life. Looking back at those days now; i begin to understand why everyone was trying to pull me out of my shell. Today, i have grown so cold towards people. I find it difficult to accept someone or what he or she is even saying. My social life is terrible. I hardly socialize with people. Even when i do, i feel awkward and i get looks from people like they are trying to say ''she is doing it all wrong.'' i wish i could turn back the hands of time so i can correct all my errors and at least open my heart to people. When i see people who are trying to lock their heart away from the world; i call them and tell them to be free with the world!

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Now, i feel like i have been foolish trying to be alone and not wanting people around. Today, i always make sure am surrounded by people who would help me grow my social life and make me feel loved because i have realized that 'life is too short to spend it alone''.


So, when you feel you want to shut yourself out of the world or vice versa, think again. I am not saying you shouldn't have your alone or quiet time. Its good you stay alone for a while to give you time to think things through or do some other things you love doing alone. But don't try to make it a habit. Try to open your heart so it won't get stuffy and turn cold.

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This life is really not gonna last forever. Its better you share it with people that count in your life.

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