How To Know Your Girlfriend Would Make A Wonderful Wife

Some guys, after a while in their relationship will always want to know what the relationship has for them. The serious-minded ones who have marriage on their mind will definitely begin to assess their girlfriends to know if she is worth living with forever!

To make your assessment short, and to give the ladies some clues; here are ten things you should generally look to see in a lady. She musn’t exhibit all ten but she should have a good number of the qualities.
Well if she doesn’t, you can teach her or encourage her to do these things! Just remember that you can’t totally change her or force or influence her to be something she is not interested in!
So here are qualities you should look out for in your girlfriend/lover. If she has some or all of these, then you are safe and should have little worries:

1. Hospitality: The woman you want to settle down with has to be hospitable; this is because you are starting a new life away from your family and you need to be sure she can accommodate your people. You do not want to marry a hostile woman who would make you and your siblings become estranged. If she is really or a little bit hospitable then you have no problem because your friends and family will never feel scared of coming to your house for a visit or stay.

2. Humility: If your girlfriend is humble, then that is a plus. A humble woman tends to handle things with wisdom as she would always put people’s feelings into consideration before taking a drastic decision. This would help you to be favored too and would add honor unto you. If she is humble, trust me she would make a good wife.

3. Hardworking: While your girlfriend may not have the strength to carry a bag of rice, you should be sure she is the type of person that would not rest until she feels some work has been done in the house. If she is industrious, it means she would be able to keep your house together and contribute to the growth of your business, career or life in one way or the other.

4. She can try to cook: If you have a girlfriend who is a lover of junks and roadside foods, you may have to reconsider. Your girlfriend has to be able to cook; this would at least assure you that she would make a good wife and be able to provide for her family. The life you live as a married man should be different from the kind of life you lived as a bachelor. You need not be seen going to a restaurant three times a day, seven times a week! Even if she can’t cook to your taste, encourage her to enroll in catering classes and please, don’t make it sound like you are mocking her.

5. She has a sense of humour and is fun: Your girlfriend has to be some interesting person; there must be something about her that you love. You cannot be stuck with some boring person who would make the house a dead zone for you. Having this kind of wife means you may not look forward to going home after the day’s work because of her nature. Your girlfriend has to be someone you can play and laugh with, that way you can be sure she would fit into the role of a wife. She should also be able to say things occasionally that will make you laugh and hold your stomach!

6. Loving and understanding: If your girlfriend is loving, caring and understanding, then you can be sure she would make a good wife. This is because she would put your mind at rest at all times while you hustle to provide for her and your children. Having a girlfriend who complains and nag a lot would kill you with frustration. She may push you into taking drastic measures as a result of her complaints.

7. Loves children and is good with them: Even though most people feel women and children bond naturally, some women dread being with children. They cannot stand or tolerate them for one minute. You have to be sure that woman you are dating is good with children before you make her your wife. Or you may risk getting different nannies to handle your kids.

8. You share similar life goals: Before you promote that girlfriend of yours to the position of a wife, you have to be sure you share similar life goals. You cannot pick up a prostitute who is driven by money and material things and automatically expect her to settle down into the lifestyle of a pastor’s wife; though it happens sometimes, it rarely works. You would always look over your shoulders while you are married to her. Your girlfriend must be someone whose life goals are similar or same with yours. You need to have a lot in common before you can function as a unit.

9. She is emotionally balanced: The girlfriend you want to make your wife has to be someone who has control over her emotions. You do not need some hot-tempered woman who loves throwing tantrums as a wife. She would always create scenes in your life and embarrass you when her jealousy breeze blows. Unless you personally like such people, you may want to change your mind.

10. She is prayerful: This life is a battlefield; the earlier you realize that, the better it would be for you. While you may want your life partner to be like Kim Kardashian in stature and shape, you should also remember that you need a woman who is godly, faithful and prayerful. She should be able to stand for you spiritually and fight your battles together. Making a woman your wife goes beyond the physical attraction, the spiritual aspect is also involved.

So, what other qualities do you think?


  1. Finally! I have really missed your relationship tips!

    Now, let's go back to reading it!

  2. Awesome post dear!

  3. My cute girlfriend has a lot of those qualities, so am safe 🙌😁🙌😁!


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