Qualities You Need Before Getting A Man To Propose

Ladies, you may agree with me that getting a man to propose is no more that easy. Back then, you could just win a man over almost without stress; but now, you do almost everything to win him and still fight to keep him! Most men who are willing to get married now find it very difficult to get a wife because of the way most girls behave, In a nutshell, they just want a happy and easy-going woman who has good values.

If you want a marriage proposal and you want it fast (though I don't think there's fast proposal), here are some of those things you must do before getting a man to propose to you:

1. You have to be yourself:
Honestly you dont have to be everyone else! Men love ladies that live their natural life. He may appear to complain to some of the things you do, but he may actually prefer you to that fake girl you choose to be. A  lady, who is constantly talking about what other people do and what they have, places a lot of undue pressure on her man.  Be yourself, live your normal life and shun pretenses.

2. You appreciate his mother/siblings:
Over 80% of the guys love their mother more than their father. Just the same way you will like your son to love you when he grows up to be a man and would not want him to neglect his duties as a son because of a girl he met out there in the street. Most guys believe they can always get a new wife but never a new mum when they lose the only one they have. So try not to interfere in this area as you may not like your own son to do same with another girl when its your turn. Never make negative comments about mothers-in-law whenever you are around him. Let him know his mother is as special to you just as she is to him.  His siblings? Show love to even the nastiest of them all, its just a matter of time and you will get married. So start getting used to them.

3. Don't force him to change YET:
Well, you may have noticed the yet above. Some women claim to love a man just the way he is but little by little, they want to change everything about him. First, its his wardrobe, then, its his taste in music and so on. Don't attempt to change things about him as soon as you jump into his life. Give him time and find out those habits that are unpleasant and try to gently talk him out of them.

Don't try to make him change anything based on your gain only. Besides, ladies are supposed to adapt into a mans lifestyle not the other way round.

4. You don't have to start seeing him as a father YET:
In a nutshell here, grow up and stop being too childish. Not all men like to be viewed as a father figure. Initially, he might like how you look to him for approval and the answer to all of your questions, but soon, he realizes that he wants to be intimate with a real woman, not someone who is stuck in her teen years trying to get daddy to notice her. Don't run to him each time you need one thing or the other, help or support. show him you are mature too and can handle some stuffs yourself. Seek advice from him when necessary and don't make it an unnecessary habit.

5. You don't have to be too clingy:
As a woman, you must have something going on in your own life so that you are not always clinging to him. Don't be too difficult for a man to date, let alone marry. At first, he is flattered that you are so in love with him and wants to be around him always; but very quickly, he feels overwhelmed and suffocated by you falling on his name, chest and shoulder all the time. Give him space and let him do other things. His life is definitely not tied all around you.

6. You  don't have to be too jealous:
Jealousy, sometimes is a very good and necessary tool that keeps every relationship alive but not when its crosses its borders. You dont let him have other female friends but you give out your contact to other guys out there. Sorry! A jealous woman is on edge always because she is very distrusting. Just because you have been hurt in the past, don't be on guard for anything that looks or feels wrong. When a man first meets such a woman, he wants to reassure her that he is nothing like that guy in her past. However, once she accuses him one too many times, he will have no choice but to leave her because he cant go through his life being prosecuted for somebody elses crimes. So, learn to trust, it will help you a lot.

7. Don't remain in your mothers wings:
Don't be a mummy's pet just the same way you will not like a guy that is mama's boy. A man is comfortable with you when he realizes you dont call on your mother always to make a decision on your affair with him. He gets scared the more when you cannot do without getting her opinion on everything.

8. You don't have to talk about others always:
Its true most ladies talk and gossip a lot but yours should have limit. Most guys are turned off when you always love to gossip and talk about other people. Not only that, when you love to hear things about other people as well. Initially, this could entertain him but eventually, he begins to wonder what you are saying when he is not around. If you cannot keep some little secrets, he will not trust you into telling you anything worth keeping as a secret because the same way you spread your mouth around him is exactly what you will do once he is not around.

9. You don't have to be too bossy:
Some ladies try to control a man like a military head of state. You must be humble enough to attract a man and hold him when he first meets you, and thinks your character trait is OK, he starts to feel he should propose and walk down the aisle with you. However, once he feels like he is in a grammar school being given orders by his teacher, he will take a bold walk and leave your life for the nearest girl around.

10. Don't play games with his heart:
Some guys will simply play along with you, act like they dont know what you are doing and once they have gotten to see the end of that hole, they simply back off and that's when you will realize that you have been fooled by a smart dude who acted to be fooled by you. Guys are actually smarter than ladies think. Never ever think that being a game player will help you get a man. Though he might be intrigued by a hard-to-get lady in the beginning, as soon as he decides that he is interested in her, all he wants is an honest straight-shooter.
Bottom line, if you want a marriage proposal, just be good and a good man will come to you. Stop looking for a real man when you are living a fake life. Dont assume he doesnt know all those crazy things you do. A guy can surprise you when you least expect and you will be the one that will end up crying over a heart break.

I so wish you the best in your relationship!


  1. Number three is so right!!

    1. Some girls be dictating what you should even wear when you give them d chance!! 😣

  2. Number 1,3,4,5,7 very important please


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