Top Traits Of A Perfect Girlfriend

You've found yourself a cute and perfect guy and you don't want to lose him no matter what. Well, if you're looking for ways to keep your man happy, find out how to be a good girlfriend and treat him right. Though we are not totally perfect, there are some traits one need to have as a lady in order to be that perfect girlfriend your man will love. 

These traits are just the regular qualities we all know but explained with more emphasis. You may already be indulging in a few of these traits without realizing it. But if you aren't, perhaps its time to be a good girlfriend and make your man fall in love with you, more with each passing day.
The art of being a good girlfriend is simple. Make your man feel special and cared for, and he will love you for it. These tips work and if you build and develop the habit of doing most of these things, you will have a better advantage. If you're dating a guy who's perfect and makes you feel on top of the world, perhaps its time to return the favour. Even if he's not that perfect, just blow him off with these traits. Here are ten little things you can do for him that would impress him and make him desire you more than ever before:

1. Make him a better man: Relationship is not all about hanging out, companionship, sex, etc. A healthy relationship tries to tackle the present condition and the future to come. A good girlfriend doesn't just teach her man how to be romantic or chivalrous. She knows her boyfriend inside out and helps him fix his flaws and improves his imperfections.

One of the better traits of a good girlfriend is her interest and ability to mould her man to become the best he can ever be. The both of you must not be carried away by youthfulness because a time will come when only what and how the both of you plan the future determines the fate of you both staying in that relationship and trust me, no man will love to lose a woman with a good and promising future. Do you motivate your man to achieve his dreams? Do you talk about his future and his potentials? If you don't, make it a habit now.

2. Make your guy feel special: Assuming you're the guy in the relationship and all the time you are cuddling, caring, and doing all the sweet talking, wont you feel bored about the whole thing? Every guy loves to be pampered by his girlfriend, especially in front of others. Your guy may never acknowledge this. In fact, he may seem awkward or even embarrassed when you indulge in a bit of affection in public with him. But deep inside, he wants your attention.

In almost all relationships, its the guy who pursues the girl and tries to impress her. Perhaps, you can now return the favour by snuggling up to him when you're with other people. Believe me, there's nothing that screams she's my girl in your boyfriend's head better than this. Plus, he really enjoys the affection.

3. Allow yourself run wild sometimes: We all know that women always make it seem like being the first to make a move to make out or have sex is a mans job. You can be coy in bed for most of the time, but every now and then, take the lead and show him what you've got. Sometimes you need to show him the bad girl in you. A good girlfriend knows how to play coy but every now and then, she shows him a few sexy moves that can pleasantly surprise him and maybe make him want you more each time.

4. Impress his family and friends: If you call him your boyfriend, then you should try to represent him well before his friends and family, Play, adjust and align well with all his friends and family. If you want to know how to be a good girlfriend, this is a great move to start with. Your boyfriend may be smitten by you, but he's got a significant baggage that needs some impressing too. Every time you're with his friends or family, try to participate in the conversations and be cheerful around them.

Chances of losing him is very high when his friends and family dislikes you and will always leave the both of you alone whenever you are around. If he sees that you're bonding well and having a great time with his family and friends, you're probably going to see his eyes tearing up with happiness real soon!

 5. Want him more than you need him: Every guy dreams of getting a girl who's independent, but yet dependent. Some girls are rather clingy and need a boyfriends help for everything. On the other hand, we have a few other girls who are way too independent. Guys love the middle path. Every guy likes to be there for his girlfriend in her time of need. It may be his protective instinct or he may just want to impress you or please you.

If you don't really need him to help you, but you still want him around when you're doing something because you love his company, any guy would love you for that. Guys may appreciate an overly dependent girl or a completely independent girl at the beginning, but as the relationship grows, he'd fall more in love with a girl who doesn't always need him, but still wants him.

6. Earn his respect: Every woman wants to be treated with respect and men understand that. A good girlfriend doesn't just demand respect from her guy, she earns it. When you believe in yourself and your capabilities and have a strong and determined personality, it'll make your boyfriend respect you for the person you are. Learn to show off your capabilities and awe him, and he'll begin to listen to you and respect your opinion, not because you're his girlfriend but because you're such a wonderful person. Always speak good of him when you are with friends or family.

The way you place yourself before your boyfriend is the way he will take you, so when you respect yourself when it comes to issue that concerns personality, life or spending, he will respect you and would not want to lose you.

7. Dress like a million bucks: Most guys are attracted to what they see so you have to be the girl that kills him with your dressing. For a guy, there's nothing sexier than a girl who can illuminate a room when she steps in. Be that girl. When the whole room stops and stares at you, it'll fill your boyfriends heart with happiness and pride. Dress like a million bucks when you go out with him, and if his jaw drops at first sight and he cant stop glancing sideways at you when you walk with him, you know you've worked your magic!

Most guys will always be proud to be the boyfriend of that girl whose dressing cannot be overlooked. You don't really have to dress half naked before you can hit this, just know the right combination and put on what fits you.

8. Be intelligent and witty: Some girls think that being intelligent in a relationship is all about monitoring their boyfriend, checking his phone, weighing his opinion, putting him in duress to get him say the truth about something etc. but that's not true. A good girlfriend is aware of the world around her. You don't need to be a rocket scientist, but if you can be witty and fun, and mix it up with intelligence when you're having a conversation with him, there's no way he would ever let someone like you slip away from him. And remember, an intelligent person isn't always a walking-talking-encyclopedia; it could even be a person who knows a few things, but knows it well.

9. Look after yourself and your guy: Fill your life with happiness and have a positive outlook towards life. Work out, look good and feel good about yourself. And help your boyfriend look good and feel good too. When both of you are cheerful and happy with yourselves and with each other, both of you will feel radiant and be full of positivity which can have a positive impact on your lives.

Ever wondered why some men will always seek their wife's opinion about their dressing each time they are off to work every morning? You also need to prove to him that you're a fashionista and that will make him believe you need to look into his dressing. Always look out for his health, physical and metal well being. Also do same to yourself when you are at it.

10. Act like a guy when you have to: Some guys do not joke with their friends or games like football, soccer, wrestling, etc. so try not to interfere with this. A guy wants his girlfriend to be sweet and caring, but every now and then, especially when there's a game on or when he's spending some guy time with the boys, he would absolutely love it if you could turn your baseball cap around and chew gum like a man!

If you want to know how to be a good girlfriend, learn to hang out with him and his friends and have a good time in the boys club now and then. Above all be bold enough to correct him with love whenever he tries anything silly. You can always correct and show your grievances like a man but not in an embarrassing way.

So ladies, I guess I've exhausted my points. Use these ten simple tips on how to be a good girlfriend and you'll be able to awe him, mesmerize him, make him fall head over heels in love, and show him that you're the best girlfriend he can ever get!

What do you think?


  1. Okay... I think I'm gonna agree with these. So, what about the boyfriends??

  2. Number 11 - be great in bed!

    1. If you can't satisfy me in bed, you aren't my perfect girlfriend!

  3. Good relationships come to those who have good intentions, people who are willing to give and people who are willing to risk. things to talk to girls about


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