Things You Should Never Say To A Lady

Girls can be carefree and also emotional at the same time. They love to hear you say positive things about them and can also be easily swayed by words. Though not all of them share this trait, a good number of them are conscious of what people say to them. Saying the wrong thing to them can be disastrous. 

To save yourself from having a crying or very emotional lady in your hands, avoid saying these things to them:

1. You've Gained Weight:
You’ve decided to jump straight in there with perhaps the most unforgivable and not to mention mean thing a guy can say to a girl. Talking about a woman’s weight in any way won’t ever be well-received. If you want to send your message across, do it subtly and don't make it sound like she let herself lose and has been stuffing chocolates and junks down her throat! Some girls may deliberately ask to hear what you'll say. My advice, don't take the bait the way it looks. 

2. You’re 100% Wrong:

No one ever likes to be told they are wrong, especially not the ladies. Guys, here’s a little tip, girls prefer a good old-fashioned debate rather than being told they are outright wrong about something. Even if they really are, prove it to them without making them feel like they are dumb. 

3. You Talk Too Much:
Telling a woman she talks too much is playing into one of the ultimate stereotypes, which by the way most of them don’t appreciate! If she talks too much (of course that's almost inevitable), give her space to talk her heart out even if you are listening with half interest. If you can't handle her talk or it's blowing your ears out, gently make her keep quiet or shut her up with a kiss. 

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4. You're A Girl You Can’t Do That:

Outright sexism is something a woman just won’t accept in any way, shape or form. Women can do absolutely anything they set their minds to and are equally as brilliant as guys. So telling her she can't do something especially because of her gender is in all way wrong. She may feel challenged to go ahead with it (which may be good. Or may turn out bad). Gently tell her it's too harsh for her and you wouldn't want her to get hurt. Showing you care is better than making her feel incapable. 

5. I Don't Like Your Hair:
Never ever insult a woman’s hair! Negative opinions on how a woman looks will never get a laugh out of her even if you don't mean it. A woman can spend a lot of time in front of a mirror fixing her hair, and you coming up in 4 seconds to tell her you don't like it is not going to go down well. That remark can change her mood till she leaves your presence! Plus it can cause insecurity and low esteem!

6. You'd Be Prettier If You Smiled More:

To a woman, this basically translates into you don’t look very pretty and you look completely miserable. Guys, a little heads-up, don’t ever say this to a woman or you might get a mascara wand down your throat.

7. How Old Are You?:
Well, unless you both have reached the level of ask and you shall receive answers or you are simply playing a game; asking a woman her age will never go down well in any circumstance and trust me, you won’t want to see what happens when a women gets offended. She may decide to tell you on her own! But DON'T force the question on her. 

8. How Many Partners Have You Had?:

This conversation will almost definitely come up at one point or another, but guys, let the topic come  naturally and don’t force the answer out of a woman because she won’t appreciate it. Allow her do the confessing in her own time and without pressure.  

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9. How Much Do You Earn?:
The same way you don't like being asked, same goes for asking a woman how much she earns. If she wants to tell you, she will when she’s ready. Your prying is likely to make her feel uncomfortable and suspicious so let her take her time.

10. Calm Down:

Women know how to manage their anger and don’t need to be told by anyone to calm down, it will only make them madder. Plus, they will never agree that they aren't calm. But if she's acting all crazy and you really need her to calm down, gently pat her back and tell her to relax. 

11. You Look Tired:
Telling a woman she looks tired is basically like telling her she doesn’t look her best and no one out there wants to hear that. Yes, you may feel concerned that she's actually looking tired but she won't see it that way. Better to ask what's stressing her out. 

12. You’re Too Sensitive:
For a woman, hearing she is too sensitive pretty much has the same effect on her as hearing she is weak. Yes they know they are sensitive, just don't rub it in like it's their fault! 

13. I Don't Like Your Girlfriends:

Having a group of amazing girlfriends that are there to support you is one of the best feelings in the world. Women typically have really tight knit friendships and insulting their friends would be massively overstepping the line. Don't make her send you to hell for saying her choice of friends sucks! If you don't like them and want her to avoid them, calmly try to see reason with her without bringing insult into it. 

14. Your Family Are Boring:
Many girls are really close to their families and would do anything for them. Women have really impressive family values and can’t really deal with hearing that someone doesn’t appreciate their family as much as they do. Don't ever mention that to her even if it's true. 

15. You’re Overreacting:
Huh? I'll advice you don't use overreacting in the same sentence with girls! The word ‘overreacting’ could trigger a huge meltdown, so guys try to avoid using it at all costs. If you mention that to her, you are only going to end up explaining the instrument you used to measure her actions because you won't hear the end of it. 

Well, the problem is that most guys don't really see much harm in some of these comments, but trust me, these are comments you should not make directly to a lady. 

On the other hand, tell her sweet words and nice comments and you'll find out you just bought yourself a loyal friend! 

What do you think? 


  1. Lol. I can relate! The last time I told my girlfriend that u don't like her hair, I was at a party with her and throughout the night, I was left alone. She was with her friends and refused to even look at me!
    Hard way of learning a lesson right!?

  2. Hahahaahahaha... Any guy that tells me that I'm overreacting is looking for a 3rd world war! I mean, he hasn't seen overreacting!

  3. So long a list for things not to say to women. What about the male folk? Are we not also conscious of what is been spoken to us?


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